Monday, March 9, 2009

Dragon Age: Origins Gma 950



In schools, as in many other places where people are grouped, not unusual for petty conflicts that can arise from a thousand and one reasons. If this is also infants, the causes we can sometimes seem surreal. But make no mistake, these disagreements are important to them, suffer and feel as if the only important thing at that time. So get a proper solution to the conflict is necessary for the proper functioning of any school organization.

We are too used to seeing children "fix" glitches in the fast lane. As you're not careful, there are the wounded honor and the desire to recover the honrilla with unorthodox methods. Often we engage the elderly, for professional purposes. There are few times you have to use some time to solve issues peacefully derived by complicated paths. But that is not desirable.

themselves is preferable that students acquire the ability to react accordingly to the problem, always anticipating behaviors of dialogue and problem analysis. Hard to get? Sure, but why we are. We are aware that kids like to solve these problems, without having an adult come to bring peace. We just have to give them the right tools to succeed.

And we are doing, among other things, the creation of a group of mediators : older students (six), chosen by themselves, they have the necessary skills to help resolve a conflict. They do not solve the problem, not about that, but they help kids who have a conflict to resolve them. And those involved in the mess like knowing able to solve it themselves, with the aid of the same.

mediation This group knows it is a job-training pre- what a mediator : someone who helps others communicate better, good listener and transmits tranquility, someone can trust who is responsible, which is objective and not take sides with any of the parties in conflict. Above all, they want to be mediators useful. also know very well what is not a mediator : someone who tells the other what to do, which interrupts the dialogue, who judges, who sends or impose punishments.

What is difficult to find children who meet these characteristics? Not so much. We have them and are doing a great job. Best of all, his partners trust them to solve small problems daily. We want and are already up to his own office, which lists their names. Since I have begun to act, breathe a lot more confidence and autonomy in the environment. The coexistence in the center is well advanced, and the contribution to it in this group is invaluable.

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